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Introduction
Because I started this blog last summer and have already written several entries, I’m doing this a little backwards. Completely in...
Rachel Zirkin Duda
Dec 18, 20243 min read
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April 2 is World Autism Awareness Day
Until recently, I had no idea there was an official day (or month, for that matter) dedicated to autism awareness. Seth wasn't diagnosed...
Rachel Zirkin Duda
Apr 24 min read
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Getting the word out
I must admit I am feeling extremely overwhelmed these days. I really want to find my people – people who need to read a book about a mom...
Rachel Zirkin Duda
Mar 222 min read
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The Wisdom of Seth
So, I was upset the other day for a variety of reasons, and Seth was trying to comfort me. I wasn't very receptive at the time, but he...
Rachel Zirkin Duda
Jan 292 min read
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A poem about dyspraxia
I am constantly grappling with shame-based messages my brain keeps throwing up at me, so I decided to fuel my upset into poetry. I read...
Rachel Zirkin Duda
Jan 222 min read
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Spending time with Seth's girlfriend
This past weekend, I had the unexpected pleasure of spending quality time with Seth’s girlfriend of almost one year, N. N with a rainbow...
Rachel Zirkin Duda
Jan 153 min read
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Sharing the healing journey
“Pain shared is pain divided.” [1] One of the biggest challenges I have faced in the aftermath of my extremely traumatic childhood (which...
Rachel Zirkin Duda
Jan 122 min read
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"Bad Parenting"
I was scrolling through posts on a social media site when I came across this comment: “The issue is everyone blames autism for everything...
Rachel Zirkin Duda
Jan 122 min read
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Excerpt #2 from "Mending Together, Building Together"
Chapter 17: Discipline With the gift of hindsight, I have come to understand that discipline isn’t about showing kids who’s in control....
Rachel Zirkin Duda
Jan 42 min read
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The Māori word for autism
I recently learned that until just a few years ago, the Māori [1] language of New Zealand didn’t have a word for autism. According to...
Rachel Zirkin Duda
Dec 30, 20243 min read
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What causes autism spectrum disorder (ASD)?
This is a question that has been on the minds of concerned parents and the medical community for a very long time. Some insist ASD is...
Rachel Zirkin Duda
Dec 13, 20243 min read
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Re-imagining the puzzle piece symbol
According to “The Ableist History of the Puzzle Piece Symbol for Autism,” an article from the website, In the Loop about Neurodiversity,...
Rachel Zirkin Duda
Dec 10, 20242 min read
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Teaching done right
After Seth failed Latin, I was left with a conundrum. He still needed to finish high school, but by this point, Seth didn't want to give...
Rachel Zirkin Duda
Jul 30, 20242 min read
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Excerpt #1 from "Mending Together, Building Together"
Chapter 6: Having My Baby Pregnancy The day I found out I was pregnant, I was ecstatic. I vowed to avoid doing anything that could...
Rachel Zirkin Duda
Jul 22, 20244 min read
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This Child was Left Behind - part 3 of 3
Had Seth been assigned an IEP early on, we might have been able to prevent what eventually happened. That said, this wasn’t entirely the...
Rachel Zirkin Duda
Jul 5, 20244 min read
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Seth-isms
Seth sitting in a grassy field. Age 1. Seth has always had a unique way of looking at the world. I have dubbed his nuggets of wisdom and...
Rachel Zirkin Duda
Jul 3, 20241 min read
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This Child was Left Behind - part 2 of 3
Seth started his freshman year of high school at the age of 16 – in September 2020 – when school was online. Seth’s teachers loved him...
Rachel Zirkin Duda
Jul 2, 20243 min read
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This Child was Left Behind - part 1 of 3
My son, Seth, is a 19-year-old young man who is intelligent, kindhearted, quick-witted, and wise beyond his years. He has always danced...
Rachel Zirkin Duda
Jun 29, 20243 min read
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